Thursday, January 2, 2025

Last chapter in Singalo-Vada Sutta

Last chapter in Singalo-Vada Sutta

 This is last chapter Singalo-Vada Sutta in old English. 

I was looking for Singalo Vada Sutta in English for ages but could not find. 

I was convinced Buddha did not go into our life beyond 8 precepts.

I was wrong.

A comprehensive guide of 14 acts.

I list them without any order.

1. Partiality hit me first.

Do not follow judgement on your fellow beings specially your spouse.

2. Control your anger

(I was a guy with short burst on daily basis).

3. Do not lie.

4. Do not steal.

5. Do not be a fool.

6. Do not try to be a professional.

 (It invariably applies to me).

Last two I forgot.

Re-referred the text

7. Fear

8. Impurity of what?

Note there is no reference to alcohol at all.

That was revealing.

Having a tot on the sly is it allowed?

 

The last SIX (6) was the most important.

Do not associate with bad friends.

1 Number one is, do not associate with an alcoholic friend in the bar.

Unfortunately, I did not read this before finishing my book on Charms of Alcohol.

Poverty

Strife or conflict

Disease

Loss of character

Shame

Impaired senses or faculties

Public display of one's personality (good in my vase) and bad in All Ceylonese including Wira Wansa with Racial rhetoric.

Of course Pu....ke, Vasudeva included.

What Buddha says is associating with these guys leads to financial meltdown.

I immediately gave a call to one of my class mates who had lot of bad friends and was really an alcoholic.

Strangely he was in  Temple and I told him to Teach the Young, the Singalo Vada and practice it yourself.

2. Number two dicing or gambling.

3. Idling and sleeping and getting up late and loitering with your friends in the night with shadowy beings.

4. Becoming a libertarian including 'woke' culture guys.

5. Going to films, theater, dancing and singing with your buddies.

6. Associating with outlaws cheats, swindlers, rouges, that include some Prime Ministers and Presidents like Zelensky in Ukraine.

So in actual fact Buddha had American Neo-colonials in mind 2500 years ago.









Sleep and Dream for Married Couples

 Sleep and Dream for Married Couples

My recommendation of Sleep and Dream habits for Married Couples.

This applies only to married couples

The young lovers should do whatever dreaming they do at lib and they should not read this article which is very obnoxious when infatuated.

I’ll try to be as brief as possible since married people have no time for heavy reading but reflex action only.

My advice to a young couple on sleep and never on dreams   (since they are in a dream world which is going to end soon after the honeymoon).

In good old days my advice was one should match a couple with synchronised sleep.

Night sleeper who gets up early, late or indifferent.

Day time napper or of 8 hour 10 or 6 hour sleeper.

Idea was when two of them sleep which is synchronised, they get up together and the home and office work is synchronised.

The advantage is only to the employer and not to the married couple any way.

That is my new finding.

My old advice do not stand to reality of married life.

One should have two erratic sleepers so that when one dreams other one is up and doing home or office chores.

Married life is 24/7 schedule and never 9 to 5.

One has to be working while the other is having a nap unlike in office life where everybody has to work whether enough work is there or not.

My recent but not published or disclosed data suggest the only time married people have a respite is in their real dream world.

So enjoy them even if they are bitter to the opposite sex.

After all they are dreams.

Have you ever seen a couple who relate their dreams when woken up to the opposite spouse.

In my experience never.

The reality is that the dream is heavily edited to satisfy the opposite spouse. Usually all the dreams are    if not majority are obnoxious ones which even in reality extend from blue murder or downright slanderous.

If they truly relate these dreams the marriage won’t last even three months. Most of the breakup are due to recurrent incidences of these obnoxious dreams.

Never believe in the dreams

They a healthy escape room for humans.

 Even dogs and elephants seem to dream. 

Sometime they are part of learning episodes in real life.

One should never go to hypnotherapist for help and they (are the worse) will record them and use them to blackmail when his/her income is dwindling or volunteer to supply the information secretly to the defence lawyer of the other side for inappropriate black income.

This specially happens in Ceylon.

If these dreams recur it is alright to go to a divorce lawyer but never to a hypnotherapist.

Who knows one may take undue advantage.

One has to bear them, bite the teeth and boldly take them in, one go at a time, like a true and mature married man or woman. One should not give this information to doctors since they will give you a sleeping pill and inadvertently stop the only entertainment one has at his/her leisure time activity.

That is simply disaster.

If you want to prolong and succeed in marriage one has to edit every dream to suit the partner and occasionally relate them saying. I had a lovely dream about “You Know” with all the blah blah.

This has worked for me and I do not know about my wife.

All bad dreams are censored by default.

Now I write about dreams, nobody trust my dreams except Maha Brahma who never dreams in real life.

His hobby is to listen to my dreams and interpret them with his wisdom. If you have any bad dream about your spouse (not your secret lover) please post them under comments.

I may consider sending them to Maha’s perusal and interpretation.

I assure you he never keeps any record of them since I am the virtual computer registrar for Maha Brahma by appointment.

About Sleep and Dreams

 About Sleep and Dreams

I have taken sleep as a bit a routine and I did not write anything scientific or substantial. If you read the contents below it was always  not to the point but somewhat bizarre in attitude.

A bit of slant and satire invariably attached.

Simply because sleep was not a problem for me.

I can sleep standing on a bus plying to Colombo but awake quickly enough to grab the hand of                a pickpocket. Equally, I can keep up awake with only coffee and tea in between for 48 hours. This was achieved doing one in two rota in United Kingdom with Barnsley with continuous stream of sick kids.

I took a challenge to keep up 48 hours.

I kept up 48 hours without sleeping with the challengers watching me. Funnily, the sleep watchers, could not keep up with me and they went into snooze mode while observing me. Then of course, I go into the sleep mode immediately after and  I won’t wake up until I had recovered fully, the lost sleep time. My sleep cycle can adjust according to the needs. The bottom line is nobody tries to wake me up while I am in sleep mode,that includes my mother.

I dip into deep sleep without an intervention.

Nutty things to do when one is young but I won’t recommend the above to any living soul. Thankfully, those days I did not have a car to drive.     Car accidents are common when one breaks sleep.     Best solution is to stop the car and have a quick nap.        I can switch my wake and sleep cycle almost at will and I believed that others have the same ability.

I am proved wrong.

Let me expand.

1. I have never given a sleeping tablet to a patient for dropping to sleep except pre-medication for major surgery.

2. I am very liberal on pain relief. That is of course, if one is not a drug addict. The proper practice of medicine solely relies on taking grief and pain factor away from patients.

3. Sleeping tablets are lethal and one gets addicted to the drug within 48 hours. The sleep one gets with these tablets is not normal and they upset the diurnal rhythm up to two weeks.

It is the melatonin that keep our sleep cycle going on daily basis.

4. One needs minimum of 4 hours of deep sleep.

Buddha was an example who slept only 4 hours and if not occupied, he was in meditative bliss and wide awake.

5. An average adult (children needs more sleep) needs about 8 hours of sleep, not necessarily continuous, that is in one go.

One can have it in two slots which is much better, if one can afford it.

6. The bottom line is how to get the most needed 4 hours of deep sleep.

The most important memory record of newly learnt material is laid down in deep sleep.

This I did not know until my retirement as a medical guy.

7. Many does not have the ability to roll into this mode, simply because of the inhibitions that precedes the rest or the night cap.

8. Even if, one is in bed for 10 hours and not got the required 4 hours of deep sleep, he/she feels sleepy during waking hours, the next day.

How to avoid it?

9. Few guide lines but none might work at the beginning but with perseverance one can achieve the target of 4 hours of deep sleep unless one’s physiology is deranged or has chronic painful illness.

This advice is for one who has no other disability including major depressive illness or manic depression.

10. One should retire to bed only when the days work is finished and not before.

Similarly, one should have a mental sketch of what has to be done the next day, certainly not the next week.

11. Humans work on 24 to 28 hour cycles not less. This is unfortunately little longer than the earth cycle.

This is why finishing the days major chores is of paramount importance.

Do not leave the work for the weekends.

In other words “Moment Meditation” (my coining) in practice.

Do the things as they ought to be, at the right time.

No procrastination.

The principle here is one should not detail more work than one can accomplish in day time hours.

Nothing pending at bed time.

If you practice this dropping to sleep is spontaneous. More than likely you get to the deep sleep mode quickly.

It is the mental anxiety that keeps you awake the first few moments in bed.

12. When you wake up (unless you are retired and nothing else to do (next morning) in the morning do not deliberate and stay in bed for few more minutes.

Your sleep is already interrupted by normal biological rhythm or the alarm.

You cannot go back to good sleep again.

Wake up and if you are bit early tidy up the morning work.

13. Mind you when you do not have a good sleep the first casualty is your Memory.

You forget things.

14. Let me now dispense the factors that hinder your sleep.

Number one is excess of coffee.

No coffee at bedtime.

It is an addiction.

Number two is tea.

Both items impair your sleep and more importantly dropping to sleep is delayed.

Others includes heavy rice meal and alcohol.

Both items cause mid night hyopglycaemia and interrupt your sleep when deep sleep is about to commence. In our set up rice and alcohol are culprits of breaking the sleep pattern.

Not only that both items cause regurgitation of stomach contents while flat on bed. They cause acid irritation, since starch and alcohol cannot neutralise acid secretions.

Light beefy (not necessarily beef but soya meat, egg omelette would do) meal and milk are the antidotes not tea or coffee.

If tea is desired add lot of milk.

Adding milk has no effect on coffee.

So take the mental and physical hindrances to your sleep as (sleep deprivers) cardinal sins.

15. I have not talked about the bed, the room, the temperature, humidity and lightnings (they are individual variables), but your cellphone is the nastiest invention of modern times.

Switch it off first, before preparation for sleep.

I do not have one. I am fully retired.

16. Watching TV (passive attention) late at night (unless the next morning is an off day or holiday) is another reason for interrupted sleep and bizarre dreams. Unlike natural vision digital flashes of TV images irritate the  brain.

What one need is brain getting ready to relax and then sleep mode eventually.

TV is not good for the health.

17. Computer (not cellphone) with a keyboard (you can hit the keys hard as they were made of steel)    is a good anxiety reliever before bedtime. My routine is to look at the emails and deleting the junk.

That routine start always after mid night.

Looking at your email is the most boring activity.

So boring you feel like dropping to sleep on your keyboard.

The advantage is that you save lot of time,       the next morning. Nobody expects (only paranoid person would take emails seriously now) you to answer emails as they come.

You must be liberal with Delete action.

It should be like “the knee jerk reaction”.

This is why I prefer blogging (hate Facebook and social media) to social media. Blogging is most of the time constructive but social media interactive, irritate inner feeling and proactive.

Fortunately YouTube has taken taken this burden away from us.

Who cares if you had million hits?

Is it like an orgasm?

I doubt it has any impact.

18. Dreams are vital ingredients of your sleep and I have enlarged upon them with my own dreams.

Or you read my books on Dreams available at Amazon’s.


Sinhalaya Killing Sinhala Language

Let me start with Indika Thotawatta.

That is the guy I love to listen to, even though I do not agree with his astrological predictions. 
He is one who loves mother Lanka and the Sinhalan Language.

Hats off to him for his honorable approach.

I am very bad in my Sinhala and I always pick one or two Sinhala Gems from him.

Chapa Bandara can handle the Sinhala language in a respectable way. I do not know his political ambitions but I wish him well.

My current attempt is to promote Dhamma not Buddhism. 
I use English for that purpose and not raw Sinhala. 
Sinhala sometimes tend to devalue Pali of it's substantial meanings. 

This is what that Kiribathgoda Goiya is trying to do. 
DO NOT listen to him. 
He is an antithesis to Dhamma.

One I love to hate is Chamuditha.

Plane and simple his aggressive behaviour is unbecoming. 
I used to switch off whenever he is on TV in any program.
I am away from our land and I am currently not subjected to his vituperations.
I have no problem of switching him off. 
He is a politically ambitions guy. 
He should not be in parliament by any imagination.

This Sepala Guy is a simple "Potha Gura" and had no substance behing him. 
A pretentious guy by all measures.
His objective is to destroy Dhamma. 
He can never achieve that. 

He will be in Hell, no sooner he leaves his present human domain. 
He has no recuperation at all. 
I leave it at that. 

I have no problem he is becoming a slimy political animal. 

What I really hate is, his transliteration. This is a term, I helped in coining when trying to translate Medical Terms to Sinhala. I used to tell my professor who had no knowledge of Sinhala, it is far better to use the original English term and get the students to learn terminology rather than the language.

Guys come to University not knowing how to define the term definition.

I was later recruited simply (putative Sinhala ability) because of me helping the Professor of Biochemistry (I was pretty good in Biochemistry) to translate Multiple Choice Questions as a Medical Student as a Senior Student (4th year).

Getting into even Seconded Post was extremely difficult those days. 
I cut my teeth, then and there and never looked back. 

Over time, I improved my English and now I start to forget lot of Sinhala Words in Common use, especially food items.

I said Halapath to Halapa.
I was teased appropriately and my current ploy is to keep my mouth shut.

Main Objective
This piece is about the YouTube guys who abuse Sinhala, especially guys who use foul language. 

One must not subscribe to them and they would peter out, naturally.

First of all the guys who destroyed Sinhala language were J.V.P. guys.

Just look at some of their wall paper posts in 1970 and 1988/89.

Marapiya
Kotapiya
Nathi Banga Karapiya
Nathi Banga Wewa

These NPP guys talking lush and posh language NOW, is simply to whitewash and fool the masses. 
That was their political motive which they successfully achieved.

I hate the guys who use Umba and Umbalata for Oba or Obata. 
It is nauseating to me coming from a Catholic school where we were not allowed to use them.
We had a very good Sinhala Teacher named Mr.Wickramadinghe. 
He taught us from Kumarodaya and his teaching of grammar was excellent.
No hanky panky.
Precise.
He was with us for only 3 months.
When he came in he wore a National Dress. After three months of learning English he switched to  a trouser. 
That had a lasting impact on me and I concentrated on English. 
By the age of 16 my English was very much refined.
Never a Single vulgar term in my school life. 
The other guys used them but they were automatically shunned. 
It is opposite now. Vulgar vernacular is promoted as opposed to Sweet Words.

We used I, you and we.
Mr. Mrs and Madam for younger females.

This Athi Garu, Vishishta and Uthumanani came with Rajapaksa Regime.

I used to say Mr.Rajapaksa, Mr.Wicramasighe and Mrs. Chandrika.
Please leave it at that.

None of them were great or National Heroes.

Quite the opposite but shameful characters.